I don’t know if you’ve heard of The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman, but he has some really good ideas. My particular favorite is the Love Tank idea, where you ask your partner if their love tank is full that day. This shows that you really care enough for the partner to make sure they feel loved. Everyone has a little emotional tank that doesn’t always feel full. In order to fill it up you have to know where the level is and how to fill it. It’s a good idea to have your partner fill in the free five love languages quiz to figure out how your partner recognizes love when received so you know how best to fill their love tank. Some people prefer attention, words, physical touch, gifts or just spending time with you. There can be miscommunication sometimes where one partner thinks they are communicating love by working hard and bringing home money, but the other partner only sees that they don’t spend enough time together because she is at work all the time. Get to know your partner’s particular love language, ask them how full their tank is today and try to fill it using the language your partner understands. Free quiz: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/. Visit me at www.feathersinfinity.com
